2021.11.27 23:33 ThrowRA-Trying How do you get the truth out of something emotionally difficult
I (m36) have been married to my wife (f32) for 8 years. My wife reconnected with John (m34) who lives out of town and they chat on social media. They were friends in their 20's. My wife liked John but he did not like her. John and my wife would hook up once in a while but it became clear that he was stringing her along to have sex with her. When my wife painfully realized, she wanted to have nothing to do with him and cut all communication with him (blocked him on social media). After that John has tried to connect with her through out the years, but she never responded. After we got married, my wife lost contact with all of her friends. My wife was sexually molested when she was a teen and John knows about it. My wife has been getting therapy. When my wife and I were dating we had a lot of desire for each other, but the desire faded after we got married. We now have sex about once a month. I usually initiate things when it does happen and she doesn't seem to be into it. About 2 years ago she asked me if it was ok to reached out to John. She told me that it was to prove to herself that she is not afraid of him and that she has moved on. I told her that I trust her but and that I am ok with her talking to him but don't know if it would bother me in the future. We agreed that she would check with me every so often to see where I am at and she reached out to him. They have been chatting about every other week since then. He also posts on her page about once a week. He knows my wife is married and she told him that she was completely honest with me about him. My wife and I have been working to improve our sex life. She asked me to work on somethings. I took notes and improved on those areas. Our sex life didn't get better. We talked about it again and decided we need to make our romantic relationship more of a priority. It bothers me that sometimes we go the entire week without connecting but she seems to be able to connect with John more consistently than she does with me. I asked her why she continue talking to him. She told me that it's nice to reconnect with a friend from her past and that he is not all bad. She feels like she can't relate to a lot of her old friends but John feels familiar. She knows what to expect since he hasn't changed much. My wife doesn't really want to start over making new friends and feels like with John she has someone to talk to. My wife went through a difficult emotional time and she made mention of it on social media. I made my self available to her and was there for her. She told me she wanted to keep her mind off of it so we didn't talk about it. That night my wife couldn't sleep, went on social media and John was there. A lot of the time they connect is late at night. John asked if he could call and they talked for 2 hours. The next day she told me about it. It bothered me that I have been trying but she didn't open up to me and she did open up with him. She apologized and has been making more of an effort to connect with me since. I have been trying less and less after that. I am more and more distant from her. She has tried to connect with me but I haven't been able to most of the time. I have been trying to make more of an effort but it has been difficult to do more than bare minimum. She has offered for me to go through their messages in the past but I never took her up on it. Today while she was not looking I did. I found that before our last conversation about John he sent her 1 inappropriate pic of himself and then another one about the type of woman he is looking for (John is currently single). I really didn't see anything else, but too be honest it was difficult to go through the messages after that. I know my wife will tell me she wants nothing to do with him and feels no attraction to him but I need to know the truth. How do I go about this so she can admit the truth to her self and me. I feel like if we don't know the truth we won't fix the issue. If this keeps on happening I don't know if I'll have what it takes to keep on working on our issues. TLDR my wife is talking to an old boyfriend online and I don't know if there is something more than friendship. How do I talk to her so we find out the truth (whatever the truth is).
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2021.11.27 23:33 OpenSeaXPoster GIVE AWAY!!!! DROP YOUR WALLET ADDRESS Guys - NFT GIVEAWAY JUST TO UPVOTE (xpost from /r/opensea)
2021.11.27 23:33 belon94 Cabinet apologizes for past law forcing trans people to get sterilized to register transition
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2021.11.27 23:33 TA100_11 I'm using Google Translate. Is there a lightweight mod for the server in MINECRAFT 1.12?
2021.11.27 23:33 jimogavlin Mafia Gang club has a great and active community!Join the discord channel. There is easy active 🎁NFTGiveaway. Link at the comments.
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2021.11.27 23:33 OpenSeaXPoster 🎁Airdrop LOOTHEREUM the world's first loot chest DROP WALLET, UPVOTE POST (xpost from /r/opensea)
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2021.11.27 23:33 basic-baiden 😢
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2021.11.27 23:33 rennok_ Best place to get a couch?
I’m moving into an apartment and I don’t have a couch. I’m looking for a comfy one that I could get up my stairs, so if it came in parts that would be more ideal. IKEA is sold out of basically everything because of the global supply chain issue. Any local shops or places to look for a decent couch?
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2021.11.27 23:33 chyphon Behold... The L-Shaped Chest
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2021.11.27 23:33 flippant_rebel56432 [SNZ136] a nice day at the beach
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2021.11.27 23:33 OpenSeaXPoster Simplest giveaway yet! 🐻 🚨 UpVote (Will check) & drop your wallet address and you will be participating for 3 free Mochi The Red Panda worth 10.50$ 15$ and 30$ 🚨 🐻 (xpost from /r/opensea)
2021.11.27 23:33 vrmvroom What’s are signs that someone was pampered while growing up?
2021.11.27 23:33 Creepaface What's the best way to own AVGN on physical media? (outside of making my own DVDs)
I am a physical media enthusiast and was wondering what the best way is to officially own AVGN on physical media. I've heard from the community that the Blu-Ray releases are really bad as well as the repackaged BFG collection. If so, then the DVDs are the better option, or do they suck too? It would also be helpful to know the quality of Screewnwave's other DVDs, such as the Board James and Best of James & Mike Blu-Rays. Thanks in advance!
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2021.11.27 23:33 Xeyxy Testing Question
Hi, have been experiencing some symptoms for a few months including worsening brain fog and kind of want to rule Lyme out.
What would be the best way to go about testing? (Seems like the most readily available is Quest bloodwork)
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2021.11.27 23:33 OpenSeaXPoster 🎉FREE GIVEAWAY🎉 After School Ghoul Club! UPVOTE AND DROP YOUR ADDRESS! JOIN discord for rarity info! (xpost from /r/opensea)
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2021.11.27 23:33 Lylcarmelatte Made this spread for a family game night!
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2021.11.27 23:33 clip_mirror_bot KOIL - HOW TO DEVIDE A COMMUNITY
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2021.11.27 23:33 Sorry_Airport do you think peace isn't strong enough between provinces? Vote me and ill solve that.
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2021.11.27 23:33 fire_in_the_rain eli5 Why do Friction & Deceleration not cause motion?
What I mean is this… When talking about forces and acceleration and motion in general, we are told that friction acts in a direction opposite the direction of motion, same as deceleration (this being explained as such using free force diagrams…)
Anyway… Also, I know that Frictional Force is never supposed to be more than the force required for motion. And this is where my question lies. Why? How? Is there any scientific reason behind this? Also, when decelerating a vehicle, why does the vehicle not start moving in the opposite direction seeing that is the direction the force for deceleration is being applied.
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2021.11.27 23:33 TessaCouper Waking a puppy
So, my puppy is 4 months old. I know the 5 per month rule, so he should be getting 20 mins of exercise during a walk Is it necessary to do this twice a day. Some days, I can’t take him out because it is too hot or too cold. He seems pretty tired after playing around with our older dog. Is it bad he doesn’t go on a walk every day? Also, when he goes out on a walk, do I let him go towards another dog if he starts to pull towards the other dog? Because some people say that to socialise a dog, you have to let them go to other dogs, I do let him go towards them but only on my account, I don’t let him pull, is this right?
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2021.11.27 23:33 ColdAstronomer797 What action you can accidentally do to lose a friend?
2021.11.27 23:33 TheYoloGod- $Clov Stock Update and where I am at
Firstly I want to apologize that I have been away. Business for me really grabs all of my attention in Q4 so I don't get around to much else. I know a lot of people feel disheartened with how the stock is performing but I keep telling you the stock is set up to do very well. I am buying every week as much as I possibly can. At these prices, it doesn't even make sense for it to be this low. Patience will be rewarded.
The Squeeze or potential squeeze is dead. At least for now. The company is in fantastic shape based on financials and earnings. I really am not worried. If you put all of your money into this stock. That was your decision but average down and continue to be patient. This will easily 10x from these values just based on their current earnings we should be closer to 18-20$. So sit tight. All of the major holders that I have spoken to are still in CLOV and adding silently. There's not much to talk about right now and therefore we focus our energy elsewhere.
Stay strong Apes
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2021.11.27 23:33 131ProofStr8Up GGrandpa Jake and GGrandma Trudy in 1936 just before my grandmother was born. Thought I got lucky with genes til I saw them and realized I missed out.
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